These qualities tend to come out in my clothes, too: Comfy with slightly oversized silhouettes that swallow me up in coziness. Dainty A-line skirts that exude graceful femininity. Deep, muted colors that are comforting and friendly but tend to make me just blend into the background.







Deep down, i want this side of me to be able to come out. To be able to feel strong, sure, independent and able to stand up for myself and others.

At 23, i still haven’t been able to truly exercise my independence. I’ve always had a sense of shelter. I’m grateful for those times, but i long to grow.

I long to let these different aspects of myself intertwine into something more beautiful. Strong, but graceful; Seeking both justice and mercy in the very same heartbeat, without contradiction.



“It Isn’t Love If It’s Selfish” – An Outfit Representing Lost Love and Vulnerability
For so long, i’ve told myself: “It isn’t love if it’s selfish”.
There’s still nothing in me that has stopped believing that’s true.
Desire paired with selfishness is only possessiveness and in action, it’s only consumption.
It’s cruel and it enslaves. It suffocates. It disregards the needs, wants, and desires of another. It inflicts pain to all involved.
But what makes something selfish, anyway?
I’m not sure i actually know….. Is everything i want automatically selfish in my mind?… everything i think i can’t have?
Long Question – An Outfit Representing the Painful Beauty of Heartache
Have you ever felt heartache so strong, so beautiful, so wonderfully painful;
…one that makes you sigh with relief, contemplating that you’ve lived and loved to the fullest you could possibly imagine…?
I Didn’t Mean to Let Our Relationship Die – An Outfit Representing Relational Sabotage
I wonder all the time if i sabotaged our relationship.
Together for 5 beautiful years…Over in the blink of an eye.
Am i the villain of my own story?
I love your outfit. It looks bad ass, independent.. strong. I also like how it’s so chic and feminine. Great choice!
I love your skirt! In my childhood , a girl came to hit my sister and I caught her by her collar and shook her so hard that she ran away ! Till date I am proud of it! 🙂
Yassss girl! I love this outfit! I don’t know if I’d have the confidence to wear it though.
Your outfit is so chic! Im loving that skirt with the stockings. <3 So cute!
These are some really cute outfits. And good for you for being determined to go out there and make your way instead of being controlled by the norms and expectations.
I love that skirt! I feel like you and I were ‘cut from the same cloth’ in many ways. The main difference? My parents did put me in karate and I am a black belt now 🙂 It became a BIG part of my childhood, which I am SO grateful for.
Let that inner self out! It looks great on you girl! This outfit is amazing and should be worn everywhere.
Yes, it’s time to take that inner strength come out! I love the bomber jacket by the way, so pretty, and so are you!
Honey it is time to let that part of you shine! Seek your adventure- don’t suppress it any longer! It’s a part of you for a reason, I think it’s time for you to explore that reason a little more.
Thank you! I’m definitely looking forward to exploring it more… It’s a chaotic side of me, which scares me a little, but suppressing it isn’t any good! I look forward to turning it into strength ?
That is a cute skirt. The building with the plastic is interesting
Thank you! And yeah.. It’s under renovation, but i’ve been wondering why it’s all covered in plastic..I thought it looked wonderfully chaotic for the photo shoot!